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the G-spOt & femA|e ejAcu|AtiOn
G-spOt histOry
Ancient cultures accepted what we've only recently "found". As early as the 4th century B.C., writings have been found that speak of the distinction between a woman's "red & white fluid". Even American Indian folklore mentions the "mixing of male & female fluids" from a female during sex.
In the 20th century, however, Western culture moved toward the belief that women were incapable of such intense orgasm, except by clitoral manipulation. This was reinforced by Masters & Johnson whose research claimed that a woman's clitoris was the only source of female pleasure, even though many women have found that to be far from the truth.
This misguided notion of a woman's sexual potential persisted until 1950 when an article by a Berlin gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg discusse the G-spot area. In his original work he reported that some women had a spot on the inside of the front wall of the vagina which, when frimly stimulated produced intense orgasms and in some women ejaculaion of somethin thicker & slicker than urine during the strongest contractions of their orgasms.
No further serious research was done untill Perry & Whipple's 1978 documentation & extensive study which confirmed the article of Dr. Grafenberg. Most sexologist now believe that every woman has a G-spot but it may simply be unresponsive from lack of stimulation. It can be made to learn to be responsive, however, by proper stimulation.
Beverly Whipple, coauthor of The G-Spot, says there are 2 reasons the "spot" was overlooked by so many physicians: "First, because it's on the anterios (front) wall of the vagina, which is an area that's not palpated, & second, when it is palpated you get a sexual responce & doctors are trained not to stimulate their patiently sexually. But the gynecologists who palpated it with our direction all found it & said 'My goodness! It's there! You're right!'"
Every physician who examined the area not only found it, Whipple claims, but reported back to the researchers that they subsequently found it in every woman they examined!
Two Types Of Orgasm
It is now known women can experience two kinds of orgasm. But they are not clitoral vs. vaginal as some hv reported.
1. The most common (some times called clitoral) also involves the vagina since the clitoral stimualtion also produces contractions of the pubococcygeal (PC) muscle supporting the eplvic floor which is where "vaginal" contractions are felt.
2. G-spot & Uterine. G-spot stimulation results in orgasmic contractions around the uterus, which is several inches above the pelvic floor.
Later research has shown that women who can orgasm both ways hv even deeper, more powerful blended orgasm, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.
One woman descirbed the difference this way: "I hv two DISTINCTLY different types of orgasm. The G-spot orgasm tends to result in my vaginal walls contracting & fluid being expelled. The clitoral orgasm can either hv fluid expelled or be "dry" but both result in my uterus contracting, not my vaginal walls. & both types can either be whole body or localized. I state all this because it seems as if some posters are implying there is only one kind of orgams & that it always involves uterine contractions & I'm here to tell you that it is not always true. So good luck in experiencing ALL the kinds of orgasms there are for women!"
Location Of G-spot
The G-spot lies directly behind the pubic bone within the front wall of the vagina. It is usually located about half way between the back of the pubic bone & the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra & near the neck of the bladder, where it connects with the urethra. The size & exact location vary. Imagine a small clock inside the vagina with 12 o'clock pointed towards the navel. The majority of women will hv the G-spot located between 11 & 1 o'clock a few inches inside the vagina.
Unlike the clitoris, which protrudes from the surrounding tissue, it lies deep within the vaginal wall, & a form pressure is often needed to contact the G-spot in its unstimulated state. Usually iy is a lima-bean sized, spongy area which responds to stimulation by hardening & swelling as blood rushes to it.
Techniques For Stimulating G-Spot
Lie back with your knees pressed up to ur chest. In this position, your vaginal depth will shorten & even small fingers should be able to reach the G-spot. With a partner, lie on ur side with one leg drawn up to ur chest as your partner enters you from the rear. He/She should be able to hit the spot.
The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gently stroking is not likely to get any results. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - onw has to compress the flesh to find it.
Insert fingers & bend them gently up, around & behind the pubic bone. Beyond the rather rough-surfaced tissue immediately behind her pubic bone, your fingertips will encounter a very soft, smooth area. Go very slowly & let her tell u what she feels as u explore the smooth area, which will feel to u like the inside of a very slippery mitten. When you straighten your fingers & reach further inside, you'll encounter a hard, rubbery structure that feels like an erect nipple pointing south. This is her cervix. The G-spot is somewhere just his side of the cervix, about an inch beyond the mitten, in the flesh immediately in front of the vagina.
Imagine ur holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach. It can be anywhere along the two-or-three inch long area between the pubic bone & the cervix. Explore slowly, allowing for feedback from her - let her guide ur fingers with her words if she cam feel the stimulation. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch.
When you reach in from the front with her on her back, the heel of your hand is over her clitoris while ur fingers hook around her pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed. Do this with the same sort of rhythm you'd use fucking, & keep your fingers hooked, so they press deep into the tissue.
Female Ejaculation
While all women hv a G-spot, it has been estimated between 10% & 40% of women are capable of ejaculation. The G-spot need not be stimulated for ejaculation to occur, but most women say that their first ejaculation experience came from massaging their G-spot. The response varies from a light sprinkle to a huge gush. I have experienced women who gushed huge amounts of fluid 10 feet out.
Researchers hv found that although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, the fluid is definitely not urine. Nor does it come from the Bartholin gland which produces a milky, odorless secretion that helps lubricate the vagina when sexually aroused.
* the article was by Dave, Liberated Christians
with a tribute to Sam Preston
G-spOt histOry
Ancient cultures accepted what we've only recently "found". As early as the 4th century B.C., writings have been found that speak of the distinction between a woman's "red & white fluid". Even American Indian folklore mentions the "mixing of male & female fluids" from a female during sex.
In the 20th century, however, Western culture moved toward the belief that women were incapable of such intense orgasm, except by clitoral manipulation. This was reinforced by Masters & Johnson whose research claimed that a woman's clitoris was the only source of female pleasure, even though many women have found that to be far from the truth.
This misguided notion of a woman's sexual potential persisted until 1950 when an article by a Berlin gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg discusse the G-spot area. In his original work he reported that some women had a spot on the inside of the front wall of the vagina which, when frimly stimulated produced intense orgasms and in some women ejaculaion of somethin thicker & slicker than urine during the strongest contractions of their orgasms.
No further serious research was done untill Perry & Whipple's 1978 documentation & extensive study which confirmed the article of Dr. Grafenberg. Most sexologist now believe that every woman has a G-spot but it may simply be unresponsive from lack of stimulation. It can be made to learn to be responsive, however, by proper stimulation.
Beverly Whipple, coauthor of The G-Spot, says there are 2 reasons the "spot" was overlooked by so many physicians: "First, because it's on the anterios (front) wall of the vagina, which is an area that's not palpated, & second, when it is palpated you get a sexual responce & doctors are trained not to stimulate their patiently sexually. But the gynecologists who palpated it with our direction all found it & said 'My goodness! It's there! You're right!'"
Every physician who examined the area not only found it, Whipple claims, but reported back to the researchers that they subsequently found it in every woman they examined!
Two Types Of Orgasm
It is now known women can experience two kinds of orgasm. But they are not clitoral vs. vaginal as some hv reported.
1. The most common (some times called clitoral) also involves the vagina since the clitoral stimualtion also produces contractions of the pubococcygeal (PC) muscle supporting the eplvic floor which is where "vaginal" contractions are felt.
2. G-spot & Uterine. G-spot stimulation results in orgasmic contractions around the uterus, which is several inches above the pelvic floor.
Later research has shown that women who can orgasm both ways hv even deeper, more powerful blended orgasm, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.
One woman descirbed the difference this way: "I hv two DISTINCTLY different types of orgasm. The G-spot orgasm tends to result in my vaginal walls contracting & fluid being expelled. The clitoral orgasm can either hv fluid expelled or be "dry" but both result in my uterus contracting, not my vaginal walls. & both types can either be whole body or localized. I state all this because it seems as if some posters are implying there is only one kind of orgams & that it always involves uterine contractions & I'm here to tell you that it is not always true. So good luck in experiencing ALL the kinds of orgasms there are for women!"
Location Of G-spot
The G-spot lies directly behind the pubic bone within the front wall of the vagina. It is usually located about half way between the back of the pubic bone & the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra & near the neck of the bladder, where it connects with the urethra. The size & exact location vary. Imagine a small clock inside the vagina with 12 o'clock pointed towards the navel. The majority of women will hv the G-spot located between 11 & 1 o'clock a few inches inside the vagina.
Unlike the clitoris, which protrudes from the surrounding tissue, it lies deep within the vaginal wall, & a form pressure is often needed to contact the G-spot in its unstimulated state. Usually iy is a lima-bean sized, spongy area which responds to stimulation by hardening & swelling as blood rushes to it.
Techniques For Stimulating G-Spot
Lie back with your knees pressed up to ur chest. In this position, your vaginal depth will shorten & even small fingers should be able to reach the G-spot. With a partner, lie on ur side with one leg drawn up to ur chest as your partner enters you from the rear. He/She should be able to hit the spot.
The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gently stroking is not likely to get any results. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - onw has to compress the flesh to find it.
Insert fingers & bend them gently up, around & behind the pubic bone. Beyond the rather rough-surfaced tissue immediately behind her pubic bone, your fingertips will encounter a very soft, smooth area. Go very slowly & let her tell u what she feels as u explore the smooth area, which will feel to u like the inside of a very slippery mitten. When you straighten your fingers & reach further inside, you'll encounter a hard, rubbery structure that feels like an erect nipple pointing south. This is her cervix. The G-spot is somewhere just his side of the cervix, about an inch beyond the mitten, in the flesh immediately in front of the vagina.
Imagine ur holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach. It can be anywhere along the two-or-three inch long area between the pubic bone & the cervix. Explore slowly, allowing for feedback from her - let her guide ur fingers with her words if she cam feel the stimulation. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch.
When you reach in from the front with her on her back, the heel of your hand is over her clitoris while ur fingers hook around her pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed. Do this with the same sort of rhythm you'd use fucking, & keep your fingers hooked, so they press deep into the tissue.
Female Ejaculation
While all women hv a G-spot, it has been estimated between 10% & 40% of women are capable of ejaculation. The G-spot need not be stimulated for ejaculation to occur, but most women say that their first ejaculation experience came from massaging their G-spot. The response varies from a light sprinkle to a huge gush. I have experienced women who gushed huge amounts of fluid 10 feet out.
Researchers hv found that although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, the fluid is definitely not urine. Nor does it come from the Bartholin gland which produces a milky, odorless secretion that helps lubricate the vagina when sexually aroused.
* the article was by Dave, Liberated Christians
with a tribute to Sam Preston
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